I Didn’t Feel “Good Enough” to Wear a Two-Piece Bathing Suit

I didn’t feel “good enough” to wear a two-piece bathing suit.

Ever felt that nagging whisper in your ear, telling you you’re not smart enough, pretty enough, or good enough? That feeling of not quite measuring up as a woman? Trust me, you’re not alone. It’s a common struggle, but it doesn’t have to define you.

Did I buy that two-piece bathing suit? Yes of course, but the moment I wanted to try wearing it to the pool it gave me so much anxiety. 😥

Here’s what ran through my mind

“Who am I trying to wear this, I have rolls, my skin is stretched, I’m not young enough” and the negative self-talk continued.

Why do we as women do this to ourselves? When will we ever feel “good enough”

So, what made me wear it to the pool anyway?

I thought of my daughter Grace and put the damn bathing suit on.

I want her to ALWAYS feel comfortable in her own skin and how the heck is she supposed to learn this?

You guessed it.

By WATCHING ME get comfortable in my own skin. By doing the work inside myself.

I’m not going to lie and say this is ever easy. It takes so much work, and it doesn’t mean those negative thoughts ever go away. It just means we learn to catch those negative thoughts and turn them down to teach our daughters to do the same.

I’m on a mission to build strong confident girls but the first step is building strong and confident women/moms to show them the way. 🩷 I want to help you too!

If this is something that’s important to you to then I’d love for you to comment below and let me know!

Cheering for you always!

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